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  • "Dopesick Nation" Shows Reality of Treatment Professionals Who Struggle with Addiction

    "Dopesick Nation" Shows Reality of Treatment Professionals Who Struggle with Addiction

    Dopesick Nation explores addiction treatment and the thin line between interventionist and client, recovery and relapse.

    Note: This piece contains spoilers for Dopesick Nation

    As a former social worker in recovery from addiction, I was initially skeptical of the VICELAND Series Dopesick Nation because I thought it would follow the familiar formula of A&E’s Intervention and TLC’s Addicted. I was wrong. Dopesick Nation is different from these other shows for many reasons, but it’s especially good at illuminating the unique difficulties of being a recovering addict while also working with and helping other people struggling with addiction. Dopesick Nation explores the thin line between interventionist and client, recovery and relapse. This is a common struggle, as 37 to 57% of professionals in the addiction field are in recovery themselves. Due to stigma, there is sparse data on how often people working in this field relapse, but I found a preliminary study that found 14.7% of addiction treatment professionals relapse over their career lifespan. I can relate: I’ve relapsed twice while working in the field.

    Let me start by saying that I commend all people working in addiction and recovery treatment. While I have mixed feelings about Intervention and Addicted, I have deep respect for the interventionists who have made it their mission to help people with addiction while also navigating the daily struggles of their own recovery. The traditional interventionists of Addicted and Intervention appear so stable; each of their stories follow a typical trajectory from drug addict to helper. On the opening montage of Addicted, interventionist Kristina Wandzilak says: “By the time I was 15, I was addicted to drugs and alcohol. I robbed homes, I sold my body, I dug in dumpsters to pay for my habit. Today I am an interventionist…”

    Yes, Wandzilak and the other interventionists’ stories are all inspiring to people like me in recovery, but the reality is that many of us relate more to Dopesick Nation’s leads, Allie and Frankie. Both are candid about the difficulty of working in the field and later Frankie is open about his relapse. But we’ll come back to that.

    Addiction Treatment on TV: Intervention, Addicted, and Dopesick Nation

    One of the first stark differences between these shows is the more relatable, down-to-earth way that Allie and Frankie approach their clients. From my experience as a social worker with eight years of experience in the field, I know that the first step is building rapport and earning the trust of vulnerable people who are skeptical of helping professionals. Allie wears yoga pants and hoop earrings, Frankie is covered in tattoos and wears a backwards black hat and a t-shirt with the logo of his nonprofit, “FUCK HEROIN FOUNDATION.”

    This may seem surface level, but first impressions matter. Trust should be earned, not expected. I had a client who refused to open the door to staff for weeks, in part because she felt social workers were elitist and unrelatable. When she finally let me in, she said, “You’re not one of those preppy ass bitches.” My boss joked that all the staff should get tattoos, a lip ring, and blue hair like me even though technically it was against dress code policy.

    In Addicted and Intervention, the interventions are staged in the carefully controlled environments of beige hotel conference rooms. Wearing business casual clothes, neatly ironed polos and chinos, the interventionists sit on comfy chairs in a U-shaped circle, then conduct a carefully orchestrated, seemingly scripted intervention.

    In Dopesick Nation, Allie and Frankie meet their clients where they are, which is a foundation for building a helping relationship. The show takes place in sunny, touristy Florida, where glimmering sandy beaches are dotted with tourists in Hawaiian shirts playing shuffleboard next to the swirling tides of the turquoise ocean. But Allie and Frankie don’t meet on the beach. Instead, they talk to clients on park benches, and curbsides in bad neighborhoods, braving torrential downpours and scorching heat. This method of “meeting people where they are at” is supported by years of social science research and was a cornerstone of my work as part of an outreach team to help people with severe mental illness and addiction. We left our office bubble, braving blizzards and arctic cold, because we knew clients were more likely to go to detox or another facility after a course of meetings in their homes.

    Fast forward to Frankie admitting he’s relapsed and is taking Suboxone, a medication to deal with opioid cravings. Wringing his hands, itching his sweat-glazed skin, Frankie tells his sponsor Gary: “90 to 95% of my day helping other people find their recovery. Sometimes I’m not taking care of my own recovery. And how am I gonna help other people get something that I don’t have? A lot of people rely on me, that pressure weighs on me.”

    Gary encourages Frankie to go to detox. “When you’re working in treatment, you’re around sickness all day long and you’re absorbing it… You need to work a righteous program.”

    Treatment Professionals Who Relapse

    I want to tell Gary that even though Suboxone is sometimes shunned by the recovery community, many studies support its efficacy. Suboxone is a valid form of recovery. I want to reach across the screen, hug Frankie and tell him he deserves the same care and compassion that he gives to clients, that it’s okay to take a break from the field to take care of himself. I want to tell him that I admire him even more because he let his guard down and was honest. I want to tell him that more of us relapse than he may realize and assure him that he is not a hypocrite for relapsing and taking Suboxone. I want to tell him my story.

    Three years ago, I was working at a day center with people who had struggled with homelessness and addiction. I remember one day when a client who was an IV heroin and meth user told me about his struggles to get clean. My years of experience taught me the art of self-disclosure, specifically if and when it was appropriate to disclose to clients that I too was in recovery. Since I’d known him seven months and even been trusted to store his dead cat’s ashes (a story for another day), I told him about my addiction as though it was in the past tense, although it was very much in the present tense. Steeped in denial, I told myself that my nighttime and weekend benders wouldn’t bleed into daytime. Looking back, I feel ashamed, but I know that denial is also a powerful drug. For a while, I thought I juggled my work life and secret life well. I thrived at my job, until, surprise— the benders bled into my work days.

    One day this client told me he was worried about me. He’d noticed my weight loss, blue circles under my darkened eyes, and change in personality. That’s when I knew I needed help. It was time to take a break from being a social worker. I went to detox for five days, then resigned and decided to move home. Like Frankie in Dopesick Nation, I realized that I couldn’t take care of others until I took care of myself.

    Eighteen months later, I miss social work and helping people. I hope to one day return to the profession, but in the meantime I’m using writing as a means to fight the stigma of addiction and shame of relapse. The reality is that relapse rates vary between 50 to 90%, and even treatment professionals are not immune to the realities of addiction. My hope is that one day more helping professionals like me can come out about their relapses and be commended for our honesty.

    What are your thoughts on Dopesick Nation and Frankie and Allie? How should people who work in addiction treatment make sure they’re taking care of their own recovery? Let us know in the comments.

    View the original article at thefix.com

  • Real Housewives of Recovery: Reality TV and Addiction

    Real Housewives of Recovery: Reality TV and Addiction

    It is no secret that alcohol is readily available on set while filming these shows to grease the wheels of conflict, and not everyone who drinks alcohol misuses it.

    When I got sober, I started watching reality television like it was my job. The mindless escapism helped me fill the stretch of evening hours that I would have otherwise spent at a bar or at home with bottles of wine. I had my go-tos: Real Housewives, Southern Charm, Teen Mom. I was content to enjoy the alcohol-fueled drama, the table-flipping, and the manufactured cat fights from the sober safety of my couch.

    But as drunken fights frequently become the central conflict between cast members—like the cake throwing incident on last season’s Real Housewives of New Jersey—I noticed a new storyline making its way into the shows: recovery. And lately, I’ve been able to find the whole life cycle of addiction and recovery on reality TV.

    But are these accurate and helpful portrayals of addiction and recovery?

    Dorinda Medley from Real Housewives of New York City slurs her way through dinners and ends the night in ashamed and guilty tears. Luann de Lesseps returned to the show this season fresh from rehab after a drunken arrest, but still keeps wine in her fridge. Kathryn Dennis of Southern Charm is most evolved: back from rehab, she lovingly mothers her young children, keeps her cool when faced with typical reality show-style attacks, and, most inspiringly, speaks honestly about her struggles with anxiety and depression.

    The appearance of these storylines in this kind of reality show is a new phenomenon. When Sonja Morgan of the Real Housewives of New York City quietly cut back on drinking, she casually mentioned that she was “trying something new,” in a blink-and-you-missed-it moment during a confessional. The drama factor in her storyline went down to nothing. She was calm, reasonable, collected; it all went mostly uncommented on by her castmates. As a recovering alcoholic, I was disappointed this wasn’t a point of discussion on the show, especially because taking a step back from alcohol was having such a positive effect on Morgan. Here was an opportunity to talk about the very real and negative effects of alcohol use disorder and emphasize the positives Morgan was experiencing as a result of abstaining, even if not entirely. 

    Jenelle Evans’ drug use in Teen Mom 2 was impossible to ignore because it was documented on camera for the show in 2013. But any recovery or treatment Evans may have had never made its way to the small screen. In recent seasons, her past drug use is never even acknowledged. Susanna, who asked that we only use her first name, is a 32-year-old public health and substance abuse professional in Denver, Colorado. Based on her knowledge of people in recovery from opioid addiction, she thinks it is “highly unlikely” Evans’ use disorder could go untreated. By not acknowledging her possible treatment, MTV paints an unrealistic picture of addiction and recovery. Susanna says that “as the viewer, we have no insight into [whether or not Evans is in recovery] since it is excluded from the story line. We therefore assume she is not addressing her substance use disorder.”

    Susanna also finds fault with how the ancillary characters dealing with addiction are represented on the franchise. Adam Lind, the father to former teen mom Chelsea DeBoer’s daughter Aubree, is never filmed. But the negative talk from on-air cast members surrounding his drug disorder, Susanna says, “only further stigmatizes addiction…and does little to raise awareness about substance use disorders.”

    Are shows like Celebrity Rehab and Intervention, where addiction and recovery is the focus, doing any better? Not according to Molly Smith, 24, in long-term recovery for alcohol use disorder. Smith used to watch the show Intervention but says that it had little impact on her getting help because she feels it presented a “narrow view of what addiction looks like.” It was so narrow, she said, that “Years later, when I began struggling with substance use, I had a hard time recognizing that I had a problem because I didn’t fit the narrative I witnessed on that show.”

    The homogeneous representation of addiction Smith saw is likely due to the selection process of shows like Intervention. People familiar with the casting (who have asked to remain anonymous) speak of a thorough vetting process to ensure that the treatment the show is offering is the right fit for the individual, and that being filmed (and other show-related variables) won’t interfere with their ability to successfully participate in that treatment. The storylines appear to have a lot in common because the people involved all meet the same specific criteria. Other viewers have reported seeking help after recognizing themselves in the people featured in these shows. And, unlike a lot of other reality television vehicles, the behind-the-scenes goal of these shows is successful treatment, not drunk drama. 

    When Kathryn Dennis of Southern Charm met the much older Thomas Ravenel, there was plenty of drunken drama between the two of them as well as between Dennis and her other castmates. She is now the mother of two and has completed multiple stints in rehab. In the recently-completed fifth season of the show, Dennis is sober and drama-free. In fact, Dennis was doing so well that she felt like she didn’t need her depression-treating medication anymore. But when she stopped taking her meds for a week, she ended up missing in action, to her castmates’ great concern. After resurfacing, she opened up to them about her struggles with depression. 

    Dianna Jaynes, a licensed marriage and family therapist in Eagle Rock, California, whose patients include people in recovery from drug and alcohol use disorder says that there is “evidence of [Dennis’s] recovery through her behavior.” This is unlike Luann de Lesseps, where real recovery “is not being portrayed at all.” 

    The arrest and widely-viewed police video last year of a combative and intoxicated de Lesseps forced the conversation about sobriety into her storyline as she returned to the show from rehab. As she told People magazine last month: “This was a warning….I’m grateful to the universe for making me change my life.”

    But her recent return to rehab suggests that Jaynes may have been right: perhaps de Lesseps wasn’t fully committed to recovery. Unlike with Kathryn Dennis, “we haven’t had the gift of time with Luann.”

    This season of Real Housewives of New York City ended with a very poignant argument between Medley and de Lesseps that perfectly encapsulates the bizarreness of this pseudo-reality world, where a sober de Lesseps suggests to a drunk Medley that she is “turning,” as in, having too much to drink and going to the dark side. Medley explodes and the rift between them continues for the remaining four episodes. Medley continues to dig in her heels to the point of ridiculousness. She has even claimed on the recently aired reunion episode of the show, which de Lesseps could not attend because had re-entered rehab, that she wasn’t drunk on the night of the fight with de Lesseps. The other castmates float in and out, at times willing to call Medley on her problem but in the next breath saying that no one on the show has an issue and they all drink a little too much sometimes.

    It is no secret that alcohol is readily available on set while filming these shows to grease the wheels of conflict, and not everyone who drinks alcohol misuses it. But in cases like Medley’s, where there clearly is a problem that she’s unwilling to face, these programs have as much opportunity to direct the narrative towards reducing the stigma as they do to incite drama. As one viewer in Denver, Colorado points out, the cast members on these shows have huge social media followings with “influential platforms that could be used for good to promote recovery.”

    Dorri Olds, 56, is a writer who began using at age 11 and whose idols included Jimi Hendrix and Janis Joplin, both stars who died of drug overdoses. She has been in recovery for 30 years, and thinks that recovery in reality television is a good thing. A former viewer of Celebrity Rehab, Olds has wondered, “what if somebody back then that I looked up to…had gone into recovery?” Olds also points out that “when you’re really that low, and you want to get high, I don’t think anybody’s going to stop you.”

    I agree with Molly Smith, who thinks “it is crucial to see more people in recovery on television, but their stories need to be shared in a multidimensional way to break stigma.” The more the stories are shown, in all of their various stages and forms of recovery, the more recognizable they will become to those who need it the most.

    View the original article at thefix.com